LGBTQ Dating & Community App
HER Review
HER is a queer-first dating and community app with dating profiles, social features, and event discovery for LGBTQ women and nonbinary people.
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Editor's Score
Best For
Queer women and nonbinary community dating
Key Highlights
- ✓Inclusive by design
- ✓Strong community focus
- ✓Events & groups
- ✓Advanced safety tools
Pricing
Free plan available
Premium from $14.99 / month
How we review
We test, research, and collect real user feedback to give you honest, unbiased reviews you can trust.
See our review process →The Verdict
A community-first app that goes beyond dating.
4.6
Excellent
HER combines dating, friendship, events, and community spaces in one app. It’s the best choice for queer women and nonbinary people who want more than just swiping.
Who HER Is Best For
Best-fit users
Queer women
Lesbian, bisexual, and queer women.
Nonbinary users
A welcoming space for nonbinary individuals.
Community seekers
Events, groups, and real connections.
Beyond dating
Make friends, network, or find love.
Pros & Cons
Pros & Cons
Pros
- Built specifically for queer women & LGBTQ communities
- Community feed & events make discovery feel organic
- Inclusive gender options and identity-affirming design
- Strong moderation and active community guidelines
- Useful for dating, friendship, and local connections
Cons
- Smaller user base in some rural areas
- Some premium features behind paywall
- Verification not required for all profiles
- UI can feel busy for new users
The Full Review
The Full Review
Selected section
User Experience
HER feels more like a social network than a traditional dating app. Its feed, groups, and events create a warm, community-driven environment that helps users connect organically.
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Safety & Privacy
HER takes safety seriously and provides tools that help users feel comfortable being themselves.
Profile reporting and blocking
Community moderation
In-app privacy controls
Public event context for social discovery
“HER felt warm, intentional, and more community-centered than the dating apps I had tried before.”
— Jules, 31, Portland
Alternatives to Consider
Alternatives to Consider
Next Step
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Frequently Asked Questions
HER FAQ
Is HER only for lesbian dating?+
No. HER is popular with lesbian users, but it also welcomes bisexual, queer, trans, and nonbinary people.
Can HER be used for friendship?+
Yes. HER includes community and event features, so many people use it for friendship and local LGBTQ social discovery as well as dating.
Is HER safe for LGBTQ users?+
HER provides reporting, blocking, privacy controls, and moderation tools, but users should still follow basic dating safety practices when meeting anyone new.
Does HER allow trans and nonbinary profiles?+
Yes. HER is designed to welcome lesbian, bisexual, queer, trans, and nonbinary people, with identity-aware community features.